Inside Hollie's Mind

Aiming to hurt someone?

“The people I pity the most are the ones who try to hurt people”

Up until just now, I was in a good mood, the reason I’m writing this isn’t to be a bitch, it’s because I’m confused as to how someone whom you used to be best friends with could do something or say something that they know would intentionally hurt you. There tends to be not very much that you can say that will really get to me, but when you step out of my life for long enough and then pop back in expecting me to give a hoot about the opinion you have on my choices you’re very much mistaken, I’m my own person, I’ll make my own future, with or without you in it. The weird thing is I feel sorry for the people who do these sorts of things, the ones who say negative things to get a reaction out of others, surely they must be uncomfortable with their own life to even begin thinking about someone else’s, let alone criticize it? Sometimes people can’t face their own problems so they’ll laugh at the fact others have some, instead of holding out a hand or smiling at them. The lesson this taught me is that there really is some people that cannot be helped after all these years, you’ve still got a negative vibe that you bring with you and a poisonous heart.

Why bring others down? What about focusing on your own problems, and making yourself a better person, with a warmer heart, and a bigger smile? 

Taking the next step

Dedicated to one beautiful girl- you know who you are :)

Okay, so I am in no means a relationship expert, on my own behalf, but in my time have managed to design many a happy couple, therefore, because I’m in a good place and feel like some people may need to hear this, especially you, I’ll give you my advice.

First up, if you like someone, it’s not pointless, so before you sit there and think, well there is no point in pursuing this, how do you know that? Has the person you like told you that, have you even told them or shown them your feelings? No, well how about you give that a shot then poppet? :) 

If you find someone who’s willing to accept you for you, you shouldn’t let them out of your sight, these days it’s hard to find someone who doesn’t want to change you. Find someone who the silences aren’t awkward, someone who doesn’t care if you do or don’t look your best, would still show you off to the world, someone who above all you would run to the ends of the Earth for.

Okay, so you’ve told him you like him right? Well if you haven’t, you should of and once you’ve done that you need to realise that relationships really aren’t that scary, YES they’re hard work and things are always going to go wrong, people are going to try and ruin things, but you’re going to have to be strong enough to get through that because when you do it’s more than worth it! 

Just because you’ve been hurt in your past doesn’t mean to say it will scar in your present. Not everyone is the same, and some people really do have your best interests at heart, and the person your considering, he’s one of them.

Go get him girl,

Be brave, rock a smile, and show him what he’s lucky enough to be able to have.

All my love,

Holl. 

xoxo

restoring-despondency asked: Cheers hollie :3 haha, calming down now! <3

Aye missus, if you ever need to vent you know where I am, always lovely to hear from you. H xoxo